I really want to like men, I really do. I want to love my brothas but I just do not understand some of the ish yall do.
It's like yall have no concern for anyone other than yourselves. How and why would you say something to intentionally hurt some one that you have claimed to care about. I know we all say things in the heat of the moment but there are some lines that you just don't cross.
This right here...this crap right here keeps me single. I do not want to have my feelings and actions disregarded and thrown by the wayside. I am fighting so hard to get back or just to a place in my life and mind that does not reek with the stench of the past. A place where I no longer hear the echoes of the hurtful words that were said. I will not give anyone else permission to try to break me.
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On the Rock
17 hours ago
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I do not want to have my feelings and actions disregarded and thrown by the wayside. ----->
I agree and the man that you meet will be the one that values your feelings and actions. At 28 I have encountered some low down dirty no good men in my life time.
BUT I gain so much more looking back on the situations, now that Im out of them.
I can relate to you because out situation is similar but what I have learn is that God is able and will provide for his daughters. I no longer look at the hurtful words and past as the victim but the overcomer.
Its a scary feeling to want love again but if we keep holding onto the past, how can new love come through.
Early this year I could have been the bag lady poster child of baggage and even though Im not fully where I need to be Im not at a place of content and knowing that I went through that situation because it was then that God wanted me to draw closer to him.
(((Hugs))
Take Moe's comment and post it here. What Moe said. She can shut the comment section down with that one.
Today, I wrote a post indirectly related to this...
Not a bad thing to not understand some mess. You just don't like selfish fellows. Nothing wrong with that. What you describe is a man with self-serving motives. Plenty of those out there. Good to recognize it. Because we are closer to recognizing when a man is selfless... That's what is important.
Keep your head up, One Woman!
Thank you both for the comments here. I just got so upset today because I saw another instance of a dude who seems to care about only himself and it made me wonder is that all thats out there now. I certainly hope not.
I can recognize the good that has come out of what I have gone through. I CAN spot the selfish man and I stay far away.
It is important that single women, especially Godly single women become healthy (spirit, soul, and body). When we are healthy, we are able to recognize healthy in others. "The eye is the lamp of the body. Therefore, if your eye is healthy, your whole body will be full of light" Mat.6:22.
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